We all have committed mistakes in our dating lives or our relationships. Some we have lived to regret. Through some research here are the most common regrets of dating people or people in a relationship. 

 

1. Most people regret not settling down with their childhood sweetheart or 1st love at college. They always believe that there will be more fish out there so why settle down? There might be more fish out there but do they actually fit your taste and personality. Compared to that proven fish that you have already established with your childhood sweetheart or 1st college love. Some people who didn’t marry their childhood sweetheart will only think that they have settled for 2nd best only. This will be unfair to the other party, because you will always be thinking about that 1st love.

 

2. Dating people for the very wrong reasons always result in disasters. There might be some that could pull it off but it could be rare. Some people date for reasons of that person being physically attractive, business reasons, business contracts, sex or even just out of sympathy. We instead should date people who we seem to like because of their great personality or that being a match for us. A friend of mine tried to date a Muslim because she was pretty attractive, eventually things didn’t work out because of cultural differences. If you know that you are entering a dating situation where things will really not work out, don’t waste your time on it. There could be others out there while you’re wasting your time on the wrong person.

 

3. People always regret not taking the offer of the date when the offer was there. People will always ask the “what if” question. Just imagine all the girls who turned down Bill Gates now. Bottom line give the person a chance, it won’t hurt to have a sip of coffee for only 30 minutes. You might even find out you might click.

 

4. In our current society most 20 something people will put career ahead of their love life. This is not a bad thing though. But once you hit your 30’s you will seem to lose something within you. You will become less attractive because of aging signs. Our body clocks will eventually catch up on us. Also most good catches will be fewer. Try to balance out your career and social life. Having a love life doesn’t mean you need to get married and sacrifice your career. It might even inspire you to work harder. It’s just how you view the situation. 

 

5. Never date a married person. Dating a married person always guarantees disaster. This relationship will always be about deceit, lies and cheating. The unmarried party will also be led to expect something that could or might never happen; which is being in a serious relationship with the married person. It might also bother your conscience that you are destroying the life of the married couple. This relationship or dating period will never ever work out and be fun. It will always be filled with doubt.

 

6. Stupid regrets here, people leave the person they love. Don’t know why. If you love the person why leave him or her? Often reasons for a person leaving his or her partner are due to infidelity. If things do eventually go broke it might be too late to go back. I mean if you love the person why be unfaithful? It might be tempting but it’s only a test of your relationship. Bottom-line, be faithful. 

 

7. People also regret not ending a really bad relationship earlier. There might have been a time during the bad relationship that there was someone better who would’ve wanted to be with you. But because you were in that bad relationship you passed out on that other wonderful person. So if you think you’re just not in the right situation have the courage to end it. 

 

8. Don’t be jackass in your relationship. People often regret that they could have been nicer to their partner. It will always haunt you when you treat your partner badly. How could our relationship have ended if I was nicer? Try to be courteous, remembering special dates (no matter how cheesy they are), kind, compromising, getting something special, being spontaneous. Don’t be too late to change, because you might regret it.

 

9. Don’t be callous when dumping a person. It definitely hurts and karma has a way of finding you.

 

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Men are interested in dating older women because 

they are more experienced and more capable of 

handling relationships smoothly. Older women are 

more mature, financially independent, and good 

lovers.

 

Younger men have been attracted to older women 

for a long time. This happens because older women 

are mature, know what expect from life, and do 

not care about what ‘neighbors say’.  If in the 

past this was a big shame, today these couples 

are not keeping in secret anymore their 

relationship.

 

Dating older woman can be a nice and exciting 

experience. If you are a person interested in 

dating older woman, you must think before because 

there are good parts and bad parts.

 

Some of the bad parts are that she has passed 

over in life and has many worries. She has ex-

boyfriends, husbands, children's, pending 

divorces, financial obligations, debts. Maybe 

your friends will consider you a hero, but your 

friends will talk about you, frown upon you. 

Remember that she is older than you are, has life 

experience, so she is often in control, and would 

like to manipulate you.

 

The good part is that she knows a lot about 

female- male relationships. She knows very well 

what she wants and from whom and they usually 

looking for a man that consider like them that 

compatibility and open communication are  more 

important than age. They do not need a man to 

take care of them. Older women are forthright and 

honest and they will tell you right off, what she 

thinks about you so you do not have to wonder 

where you stand with her.

 

It is necessary that you find an older woman who 

is interested in a younger man. You will have 

bigger chances of success to win her heart .If 

you already have a date with her, do not blow up. 

Here are some helpful tips for attracting her. 

 

Be yourself. She is dating you because she likes 

you; you offer her spontaneity and fun. So, do 

not even think about impersonating someone that 

you are not.

 

Take her somewhere she has never been before; 

show her that you are different from other men 

your age. Invite her at a jazz club, concert or 

an exotic restaurant.

 

You must change the topic of your discussions. 

Ask about her job, hobbies, what type of music 

she likes... Lady is smart, confident and mature, 

so do not discuss about age. You should be 

confident too.

 

Be spontaneous. Offer her something that people 

her age cannot, like excitement in and out of the 

bed. She is usually not looking for a serious 

relationship - she just wants to have fun. 

However, it is true that older women can do a lot 

for a younger man – besides sex.

 

Do not compare her to your ex. This would not 

make her feel better with you. The older woman 

can feel comfortable being with you even if you 

are younger and it will be at ease with your 

presence. Make her feel important and show her 

that you are interested in her.

 

You have to have the same intensity about life 

like her. You must know that an older woman will 

never wake you in the middle of the night to ask 

what you are thinking, and this should not bother 

to you. 

 

Do not move too fast. You know that she is not 

looking to make fast a family, because she 

already had one and that one failed. Maybe she 

already has children’s and this will complicate 

things. You should always be willing to accept 

the complications that come with dating an older 

woman.

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Technology has always been there to make lives of people easier. In fact, thanks to technology the world of emotions has also been conquered. Don’t try to think dirty here folks. What I’m talking about is the love connection that can happen through online dating sites and chatting rooms or software such as ICQ, MSN or MIRC and Yahoo Messanger. 

 

Thanks to these websites and chat software people have been given a better chance to find their partner. This is because people are given the chance to be connected wherever they might be. All different cultures and walks of life are able to meet with a simple click of the keyboard. In short a person has got a better chance to meet his or her partner because of the greater number of daters. It is also easier to meet people online thanks to online date sites and chat rooms.

 

After chatting for a while and getting to know one another, it would be natural to meet. It would be a pretty shallow relationship if both of you are happy to be forever just chatting. Both persons may just be really looking for someone to talk to. 

 

Finding love through the internet offers the two sides to get intimate right away. This is because it is easier to be yourself when chatting online. Just imagine that you can say anything stupid and you won’t see the other person thinking that it’s corny. Instead most chatters, even though you are pretty corny just type LOL (laugh out loud). 

 

Because of the perception that you have built about yourself and the other person, meeting them becomes very hard. This is because of the perception you have given to him or her during chatting could not be really you. Both of you will then have higher expectations of who the real person really is. 

 

Another problem that online chatting could present is the confidence of a person. Since it is easier to talk online, a person who is very shy or timid may have a hard time keeping up with who he or she really is. The person instead is like living both worlds. 

 

When also meeting for the first time after long periods of chatting that could last in the wee hours of the morning, is being able to adjust. Both of you would have to figure out that it would be harder to talk on real life because of certain other factors involved. You are now both able to see the person’s mannerisms. This will be the toughest part that you would have to overcome. Once you have gone past this, the rest will be easier. 

 

It is suggestible though to meet sooner rather than later. When meeting earlier at the chatting stages, this prevents both person having higher expectations. This also helps both parties to decide right away whether they are just better of friends or continue to develop the relationship. This helps both parties prevent disappointment and heartaches.

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