If you think your partner is having an affair then, I know what you're going through. It can be complicated when you believe your spouse is cheating--or even though you know they are cheating, but you don't have the proof. You walk around all day with a nauseous feeling in your stomach and you can not get the thought of him with another lady out of your thoughts.
What do you have to do? Here is a little bit of love advice for you:
Well, the first thing is to do is find the evidence you want that he either is having an affair or not. Before doing this, you have to ensure that you are emotionally prepared to discover that he is. So prepare yourself. Expect the worst and pray for the best.
Then, so as to find the proof you need, you're going to have to be a little bit clever. A cheating man will often do a good job at covering his tracks, so you want to keep yourself a jump ahead of him.
The simplest way to do that is to set a trap for him. Start by making a kind of excuse to leave the city such as work or visiting family. You do not actually need to leave the city, you simply want him to think that you are. After all, when the cat's away, the mice will play. All you really need to do is rent a room at a hotel close by for a day or so.
Then before you leave for your "trip" you want to set the trap. First hide a voice-activated audio recorder in the house. This will pick up any telephone conversations that he may have with the other girl, or it may even pick up any sort of interaction that the two of them have together if your husband actually brings her back to your place.
That's just the first part though. Next, you want to hide another voice recorder in his car. There is a likelihood that he might not speak to her in your home or take her back there with him. However , the second most typical place to chat to the other lady is in his auto. This is especially true if he wants to take her on a "date" somewhere in town.
After you've set your trap, leave and go on your "trip." When you return, go and get the recording devices and find a little time to go over them. These should give you the answers you're looking for.
If you do find out that he's cheating, I'm truly sorry to hear that. From here though, you've got to decide if your marriage is worth saving and working through this difficult patch or if this is something that you just can't forgive. Only you know the answer to this.
What do you have to do? Here is a little bit of love advice for you:
Well, the first thing is to do is find the evidence you want that he either is having an affair or not. Before doing this, you have to ensure that you are emotionally prepared to discover that he is. So prepare yourself. Expect the worst and pray for the best.
Then, so as to find the proof you need, you're going to have to be a little bit clever. A cheating man will often do a good job at covering his tracks, so you want to keep yourself a jump ahead of him.
The simplest way to do that is to set a trap for him. Start by making a kind of excuse to leave the city such as work or visiting family. You do not actually need to leave the city, you simply want him to think that you are. After all, when the cat's away, the mice will play. All you really need to do is rent a room at a hotel close by for a day or so.
Then before you leave for your "trip" you want to set the trap. First hide a voice-activated audio recorder in the house. This will pick up any telephone conversations that he may have with the other girl, or it may even pick up any sort of interaction that the two of them have together if your husband actually brings her back to your place.
That's just the first part though. Next, you want to hide another voice recorder in his car. There is a likelihood that he might not speak to her in your home or take her back there with him. However , the second most typical place to chat to the other lady is in his auto. This is especially true if he wants to take her on a "date" somewhere in town.
After you've set your trap, leave and go on your "trip." When you return, go and get the recording devices and find a little time to go over them. These should give you the answers you're looking for.
If you do find out that he's cheating, I'm truly sorry to hear that. From here though, you've got to decide if your marriage is worth saving and working through this difficult patch or if this is something that you just can't forgive. Only you know the answer to this.
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